Thursday, July 17, 2008

Listening

Listening, I know people who are real good listeners, you ever met a person like that. I am like that sometimes, sometimes. Some people have that ability to listen, those people even have the look, you know that look like they care, because they actually do. Some times we need to be good listeners, & talk less let the people vent a little. It will make there day or evening, help them sleep at night. If you are like me I like to just bottle everything in, don’t want to bother people, actual friends & family with my problems. As I am driving my wife can see me in thought, & ask me,” What are you thinking about?” I will reply to her,” nothing” when in fact I am not thinking about anything its weird I guess. She always tells me, “I wonder what is going on inside that head of yours.” But just be a good listener you might help some one. I guess I have to open more up to my wife; I don’t want to bother her with the little things like work & stuff. I think it will be a waste of time. Beside when I leave work I really don’t want to talk about work. I would like to have more time, hmm, time is so precious yet we take it for granted, but that’s another blog. Listening I guess it has an art to it, you have to practice to be a good listener, some people it just come natural. I wrote this to just say that Thanks for listening & letting me vent. You know who you are, when we talk, it’s one on one time I guess. To my wife especially who has to listen to me complain all the time, & Bro & Sis in Christ, Thanks for listening.

P.S. Had this blog on hold for a while so just now I decide to post it.